Hello my dear friends.
Today I have a few new starts to show.
First up is Winter Quaker
by Primrose Cottage.
The called for color was
Colour & Cotton Battleship
I wanted to use three different ones from
my stash.
Waste not. Want not.
Stitching on 32Ct White Lugana.
Next is Margaret Beattie by
Hands Across The Sea Samplers.
This is my first pattern by Nicola,
and it is a pleasure reading the symbols.
All in color and easy to read.
I chose this one because of the bunnies.
YAY
The colors are not primitive,
however I thought this would look good
to put out for Valentine's Day...
if I can get it finished.
Both of these patterns I started in December.
Therefore hoping they will get finished soon.
Winter Quaker I stitch on at lunch.
Margaret Beattie most nights after dinner.
Last year I had finished this lil Liberty.
I would like to finish all three of these this year.
This is my start on Justice.
Am using Weeks Dye Works floss for these.
Americana Blue for the blue.
Liberty for the red.
Stitching these on 36 count
White Edinburg linen.
Alternating Margaret Beattie and Patriotic
this month now.
My plan this year for America's
Semi-quincentennial (250) celebration,
is to stitch something Patriotic
each month until July 4th.
Decided to finish these patterns...
and then make them into pillows.
Finally my Blessing Sampler.
They say if you start a Sampler on January 1st,
it is said to be good luck.
Well I started this freebie from La D Da
called Letters and Leaves.
I do not want to infringe on the designer
as there was no photo of the finished piece,
just the pattern.
However from my start you get
the gist of it.
Am using DMC floss in the color 115.
It is a variegated one.
In other news,
in my last post I did not mention that
my SIL was rushed to the hospital
on News Years Eve.
I had so much to say that I felt
I was long winded as it is.
Well anyway, she was getting delirious
and thrashing about on their couch,
so my brother rushed her to the hospital.
Found out because she is so frail,
she has many cervical fractures in her neck.
They cannot operate until they figure out
why she is delirious.
She is still in the hospital.
Her blood platelets are only at 33...
which is extremely low.
Her hemoglobin is 8.4.
Because she also needs dialysis
they have also been doing that for her
right in the hospital.
My brother is a total wreck.
Hoping she gets better.
Tomorrow my brother and I are going
to visit an assisted living place.
We contacted A Place For Mom and they
are helping us find a place for our mom.
The week I took my mom back to my sister's,
I had contacted my mom's doctor.
I talked with the doctor's nurse and told her
all of the issues I had with my mom,
because all signs are pointing to
an early stage of dementia...which my sister
is refusing to believe.
Well the doctor called my sister instead
of me and told my sister that she does think
my mom may be in the early stages.
Now my sister is finally seeing what I have
been telling her for months.
For reasons I am not going to go into...
I am not going to continue watching
my mom when I retire...
which is what they were hoping.
I made it crystal clear to my siblings,
My brother trusts my judgement.
He knows mom has spent more time with
Bob and I then with him and my sister.
We also contacted Patriot's Angels.
Since my dad was a war veteran in the
Korean War, my mom is able
to get monthly assistance from this program
for the rest of her life.
This money will also help pay for her
assisted living care.
We would like to have her Social Security deposit
plus this extra monthly funds pay for her stay.
This way her care would be better than
going on Medicaid.
Both of these wonderful agencies are
so very helpful to us and we so appreciate it.
This is a difficult situation...
and my sister is not happy with me,
but I also need to think about Bob and I...
and our own health issues we have going on.
My mom does know we are looking for
a place for her to stay and she is fine with it.
Well my 2026 is not starting off
as I would like...but am hopeful it will get better.
Looks like I got long winded again. LOL
Sunday Blessings To All!
Janice










I hope sister faces reality and gets on board with things. Good that brother is OK with the plan, and that your mom is also (so far) accepting of it. Good luck with finding a place for your mom.
ReplyDeleteI hope they figure out your SIL woes.
I know it is a difficult situation but you are making the right decision. The family can still visit her to ensure she is getting the proper attention.
ReplyDeleteI love the finished Liberty and I can see Justice will also be a good one.
ReplyDeleteI think your decision is a good one, I hope your sister comes around. I would think that after dealing with this herself, she would see the need for it.
Glad you're getting some help finding a place.
You and Bob are wise in the decision about your mom. I'm sure it is a challenging one family-wise but she may well be very happy there. And if your sister doesn't like it, she can be the one to take care. I'm glad your brother is on your side. Sending good wishes for your SIL's recovery -- that sounds awful. And that blue piece at the top -- WOW!
ReplyDeleteI love that first Quaker stitch project very much and also the liberty pillows.
ReplyDeleteWe went through this with my Mom, my brother was near her in Indiana so insisted on making most of the decisions. but I did finally get him to use Help for Mom he was in denial about her dementia and they helped-set it up similar so they could not touch the inheritance. Hard but it is better care-24 hour care and doctors are always available too
Prayers for you and your family
ooops a Place for Mom
DeleteYou have so many lovely projects.
ReplyDeleteYou need to make decisions o what is best for you and your husband. I am sorry your sister doesn't see it. Prayers for your sister in law it sounds like she has a lot going on medically.
Cathy
Your poor SIL - I hope they find out what is going on and the same for your mother too. Growing old is HARD!
ReplyDeleteLove the Winter Quaker pattern. So sorry to hear about your SIL.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you made a good decision for your mom.
Just look at your sister and simply say..."well then, You take Mom in...I'll help You out when I can...", and see what she says.
ReplyDeleteThey know all you've done for your mother but it's easier for things to just stay the same, for them...not good for you. Stick to your guns my friend. Things will smooth over after some time.
Been there, done that.
hugs
Donna
Hi, I am sending prayers. None of this is easy, our family walked this path a few years ago with my grandma. It really got to be so stressful. My aunt who lives in Texas came to help out. But my other aunt who lives in Wisconsin did not. My mom got so upset by her sister not helping. It all gets to be a lot of emotion and so difficult to navigate.
ReplyDeleteI do love the samplers and your plan to celebrate our great USA!!
So sorry GF for what you're going through but so very glad that you have the support of those agencies to help you navigate this next part of your mum's life journey. We did not have that and the choices for my mother were dictated by what Medicare offered - despite the fact that she worked her entire life and had a decent retirement. Sometimes life just isn't fair. I'm glad you have your stitching to keep you balanced. And beautiful stitches they are. I have that Little Robin Designs pattern but haven't started it yet. So much to stitch, so little time. (PS...incredible that you could finish that HATS piece by Valentines...I don't want to think how long something like that would take me.)
ReplyDeleteSuch pretty stitching - a perfect way to pass these slow winter days. Caregiving is hard - emotionally and financially. There was no help for my in-laws from my SIL - and when there was job loss on this side while her husband is a doctor there was still no help. I held my tongue to keep the peace but now wish I hadn’t.(yes there would have been a war!) I’m sorry - I know how extremely difficult and sad it is. As it is for your mom as well. Sending all my heartfelt wishes to all of you.
ReplyDeleteHow scary for your SIL! I hope answers and treatment come quickly. The option chosen for your mom may be what she will be most happy with. Hoping it works out really well with great caregivers.
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