Prims By the Water

Thursday, August 13, 2026

My Second Favorite Church

Hello friends.
Thank you for all of your heartfelt comments
from my last post.
It meant the world to me.. 
Mom was a fighter to the end.
We buried her on Monday morning.


This is the church we had the funeral service at.
St Mary's Catholic Church.
They recently just re-painted the starburst mural.
Many years ago the original starburst was 
wallpapered over to remove the cracks in the wall.
Well the wallpaper started peeling away...
so they took up donations to restore it.
It looks wonderful and so glad they 
were able to bring it back to its original glory.


This is the church I attended when 
visiting both grandparents.
My maternal grandparents paid for
one of the stained glass windows....
but I forget which one.


The right side display.


The left side display.


This statue is of St Mary.


Looking up towards the front of the church,
is the choir area.
The organist was already playing when 
I was taking these pictures.
Bob is in the foreground.
I took these pics before mass...
and my mom was lying in state 
to the left of Bob.


Above the organist was another
 stained glass window.

The service was wonderful.
Those who sang the songs we chose
sang like angels.
It was a beautiful service.

Tuesday we cleaned out mom's apartment.
We donated her furniture.
Her church wanted to provide a room
for someone in need on a temporary basis.
When we found this out, we decided
to give it to them.
They received the kitchen table and chairs,
bed with linens, small side tables and lamps.
They were so appreciative.

Wednesday I went to our local bakery
to purchase 2 dozen cookies to the ladies
who assisted with mom's care.
One of the ladies told me that she wished
more families were like ours.
She said that a lot of their residents
dont even get visitors from their family members.
They move them into their apartments,
and alas never go to visit them.
So sad.

Today I am going to lunch with
two former co-workers.
Time for me to relax a bit.

A weight has been lifted.
I will miss my mom tremendously,
 but know she is no longer suffering.

St. Mary Blessings To All!
Janice


15 comments:

  1. You were a wonderful daughter! Your mother is now at peace and think she would be pleased you gave her furnishings to someone in need.

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  2. You were a wonderful and loving daughter, your mom was blessed by you. I'm thankful her suffering is over. I know that mix of feeling from when my Dad passed - there is relief but sadness all mixed together.
    The church is beautiful; that starburst mural and the stained glass are gorgeous.
    I love that you donated her stuff, she will go on blessing people.

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  3. You were a good daughter! The church is beautiful and so special because it has real meaning to your family that goes back generations. Now days, you don't see that much. I'm glad the service brought some solace.
    Peace and blessings!

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  4. Cherish the memories. She is now at peace.
    Mom is smiling down from heaven knowing her furnishings will help someone in need of a place to rest their head.

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  5. This is beautiful. That starburst mural is so perfect -- and unusual but just right for a church and the space. It's beautifully done. I can't think of a better spot for you to have donated your mom's furniture and kitchen things. And what a wonderful gesture, bringing the cookies. Perfect and I know so appreciated.

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  6. What a wonderful tribute to your mom. She is at peace now.
    Sending hugs
    Cathy

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  7. So true. The facility my sister was in for a time was so beautiful, lots of porches, private areas, so nice for visiting the residents. But they didn't come. At Christmas, they ask for wrapped gifts to be donated so those alone receive a present. Extras kept for birthdays. So very sad. Your mom was blessed with a caring family.

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  8. My sympathies and prayers for the loss of your lovely Mother
    May

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  9. You were a great daughter. Thankful that your mom is now at peace. What a beautiful church. The star burst is amazing.

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  10. The church is beautiful, the stained glass, the starburst, everything so lovely. Your donation is heartwarming, as is the gift of cookies and thanks. It’s very hard to say farewell and let go of loved ones. Wishing you peace and grace and joy and blessings. Thank you for sharing, Virginia

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  11. So sorry I missed about your Mom- prayers for you and your family-I know she will be missed, I liked seeing your church.

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  12. It sounds like it was a beautiful sendoff for your mom. I am glad that she - and you - are at peace. It's wonderful that the services were held at the family church. And, yes...what a wonderful gesture to donate your mother's furniture to someone in need. I'm certain that would have brought your mother joy.

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  13. Dear Janice, I'm so sorry about your Mom but I know she's smiling at you from above and is no longer hurting. The church is beautiful. I love the sunburst. What a great thing to restore. I'm glad folks could receive your generous gift of things to make their life better. What a nice thing to do. I hope you can find peace and rest as you process this loss. Having lost my Mom 6yrs ago I know how hard it can be. Super big hugs from Ohio!

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  14. Dear Janice, my sincere condolences on the loss of your Mom.
    Her love has transcended to you and her memory will live on.
    I'm sure your Mom would approve of giving her furniture to needy people. Your actions speak louder than words. You are a wonderful daughter to the end. She is smiling on you from above. Hugs.
    Julia

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  15. Oh, dear Janice!! I'm SO sorry about your Mother! Looked like you gave her a sweet send-off...Her furniture? What a wonderful thing to do with it all... yes, I think she'd approve!
    Rest!!!
    Big hug
    Donna

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